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A New Facilitator

Recently we had to say goodbye to Grainne, a wonderful and highly valued member of our team of Movers and Shakers facilitators. Although we were very sad to see her go, we were also incredibly happy that she has found her vocation, partly as a result of her work with us – she has gone to train as a primary school teacher, and I know she will be utterly amazing. As soon as I find out which school she’s going to teach at I’ll let you all know so you can arrange to move house somewhere near and enrol your children!

Anyway, as a result of this I’ve been busy training up a new facilitator, Abi. And it’s made me think about things afresh, and what exactly I look for and how to best convey this to someone new.

Abi is a great facilitator. She is friendly, enthusiastic, warm-hearted, hard-working and has a really gorgeous singing voice. She has trained so hard, arranging extra sessions with other facilitators, watching numerous classes, practising at home with friends – and now she has been released into the wilds of Highgate.

All through her training, Abi has been determined to get the script right, the lyrics accurate and everything in the right order. And obviously this is important, but one of the main things that I’ve tried to impart is that actually this isn’t what matters most. When I was watching her train, I didn’t care too much if she made a mistake and had to start a song again or if I had to remind her that the rhythm song usually comes after the Music Maker song rather than before! What matters to me, and I think to the parents and carers and children who come to the classes… is the ENERGY that a facilitator gives off. Everyone is there to have fun, sing, laugh, learn some new songs/rhymes/signs and… relax a bit. No-one wants to feel judged, no-one wants their child to be judged, no-one wants to feel sorry for a stressed out facilitator.

Another thing: I know it’s really difficult to say goodbye to someone you have formed a relationship with, and who your child has formed a relationship with. It’s difficult to start again with someone new. Every member of our team has their own way of doing things and their own style. I encourage all my wonderful Movers and Shakers facilitators to express their personality throughout the class. This is one of the reasons that I’ve decided not to have a ‘uniform’. It might take time to get used to someone new, but I can guarantee that every member of my team has been really carefully chosen, and meticulously trained to deliver a class that is not only slick and professional, but a pleasure to attend.

We all get things wrong from time to time (anyone who came to my class yesterday at Project Me can tell you about me messing up the Hello Song when my iPod decided to leap from the shelf!) but it’s these things that make us human, and it’s how we react to these little hiccups that is important. Do we get stressed, or do we laugh at ourselves and start again?

Again, I’d love to hear your thoughts on what you love about Movers and Shakers, and whether you think that what I’ve described above is genuinely embodied in our classes. I’d love to hear about what is important to you when deciding which group to attend and (of course!) where we can make improvements.

Gabi x

Why I Started Movers and Shakers

Movers and Shakers started four years ago when my second son was a few months old. I already had two failed attempts to start a pre-school music group under my belt so I was wary about giving it another try. However a Children’s Centre had just opened at my older son’s primary school and they were keen to get some groups running. The manager knew I had some experience in this area and when she asked me what my group was called ‘Movers and Shakers’ just popped out of my mouth. I’m not sure where it came from. She asked if I would run a class for a six-week trial period. I agreed and then went home to decide what I was going to do!

Past experience has taught me three valuable lessons:

1) Keep It Simple. My previous classes had incredibly elaborate lesson plans, props and costumes. It took me a couple of hours to plan each class and cost a fortune in bits and bobs.

2) Keep It Cheap. There are lots of ways to keep costs down without compromising on quality. I knew I wanted my classes to be affordable for everyone who wanted to come. This meant getting groups funded by Children’s Centres and offering them to parents for free, or choosing venues with low or zero rents.

3) Keep It Fun. I had had a couple of bad experiences at groups with my energetic first son. Sometimes the person leading the group seemed not to like or understand toddlers very well (“Excuse me, could you please keep your son away from my CD player?”) or there was a sense of being herded in and out at the beginning and end of sessions with no opportunity for children to play or parents to chat. Even if the class was brilliant I was still reluctant to return.

Let’s be clear about this: groups like Movers and Shakers are good for pre-schoolers. They get the neurones in their brains firing, develop an understanding of the world and routines; they teach vocabulary and a sense of rhythm and they are good place to start learning acceptable social behaviour. But are they good for mums, dads, and the others who bring their children? As a new mum I felt incredibly vulnerable at these classes. My son was not the sort of child who would sit still on my lap. He was constantly up and about, exploring the world, glancing back at me for a smile that said “It’s okay – you’re safe. I’m here if you need me.” There was one group leader in particular that insisted he sat on my lap for the duration of the session. Why she preferred a screaming child on my lap to happy child wandering around is beyond me.

So, when setting up Movers and Shakers I placed a strong emphasis on the atmosphere I wanted to generate in the group. I made sure that I allowed plenty of time at the start and finish for parents to chat and children to play. When training new teachers I continue to stress the importance of a safe, fun atmosphere free from judgement. If a child switches off your CD player in the middle of a song, who cares? It’s funny! There are difficult moments, especially when a child is “experimenting with violence” – and maybe this is something I’ll discuss in a future post because it’s worth examining in more detail.

If you come to a Movers and Shakers group then please leave any comments below – I’d love to hear why our sessions are important to you. Also leave a comment to let me know which topics you’d like me to cover in this blog. It won’t all be about Movers and Shakers. We’ll be looking at anything relevant to parents and carers of children aged zero to three!